Human relations.

Firstly,We all know that different people have different perspective,different opinions and most of all, different personality.
Perspectives,Opinions,Personailities collide and clash. I guess that's where the phrase " 八字不和" came from huh.

For example,
The top 3 things of most importance to Person X is:

1. Money
2. Friends
3. Studies

Person Y may think :

1. Studies
2. Friends
3. Money

& Person Z:

1. Family
2. Studies
3. Friends

These are all different opinions that different people have and there's nothing you can do to help it. But when someone accuses you without putting themselves in your position.
It rly hurts.

 Secondly,
When people cover themselves up so well, that they show the sweet , lovely , nice ,caring & "kelian" side of them, not everyone will be able to see beneath this plastic mask.Not everyone will be able to see the front. And its not their fault,is it? When someone lies to you for their own benefit,whether half lie or fully lie,its still a lie.To know that you've been made used of,
Its horribly hurtful.
Especially if that person is a friend of yours,for YEARS and was there for you when you had noone.

Lastly,
When the people closest to you break their promises.
When the people closest to you dont believe you anymore.
When the relationship with them are strained,hurt, its really hard to mend it back and regrets?Isnt it a lil' too late?
And to know that its all because of you and not their fault at all,you really feel like ending you life , or kneel and kowtow infront of them forever till you're forgiven,what ever it takes.
Terrifying and it hurts more than anything else.
But what if,none of this well help.
What if its really too late for regrets.

I messed up my life.With my own hands.

Maybe all one can do is hope to end up with the right regrets.  ~Arthur Miller